Remembering Catherine O’Hara, the mother in Home Alone

While driving out of the city with my family for a day of sledding, I came across the news of an actress’s passing.
The joy of the trip faded almost instantly. I felt strangely still, unable to engage with what was supposed to be a happy moment.

I wouldn’t call myself a devoted fan of Catherine O’Hara, but like many people around the world, I remember her vividly as the mother in Home Alone.

The mother she portrayed was far from perfect.
She was busy, constantly apologetic, and prone to mistakes—so much so that she repeated the same one twice.
Yet one thing was always unmistakably clear:
no matter the circumstances, she was determined to return to her child.

Her performance was never grand or theatrical.
There were no dramatic monologues, no heroic proclamations.
Instead, she missed flights, climbed into trucks, relied on strangers—
all while embodying a single, quiet conviction: I’m on my way.

For many viewers, that was when the role of “mother” became real.

The reason this character has endured across generations and borders is not because she represented a specifically American mother, but because she embodied something universal—
care, responsibility, and the instinct to return.
Perhaps that is why, despite growing up in Korea, her portrayal felt deeply familiar to me as well.

It made me pause and ask a question:
In Korean cinema, has there been a mother figure whose role was remembered this clearly, this vividly?
Such characters have existed, of course.
But more often, mothers in Korean films remain confined within the narrative—
symbols of suffering or sacrifice, rather than figures defined by motion and return.
The mother who comes back is, surprisingly, rare.

Today, as we say goodbye to Catherine O’Hara, we are also bidding farewell to a role that quietly shaped how many of us understood care and responsibility.
This is not an attempt to romanticize sacrifice.
It is simply a moment to acknowledge how such roles—often understated, often taken for granted—have held the world together in silence.

Thank you.
Because of the face you gave to that role, countless children believed,
She will come back.